Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I'd be twins!" He was a natural motivator.

If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael and asked him, "I don' t get it. You can' t be positive all the time. How do you do it?"

Michael replied, each morning I wake up and say to myself 'Mike, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life."

"Yeah, right. It isn't that easy." I protested.

"Yes it is, " Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line is: It's your choice how you live life. " I reflected on what Michael said.

Soon thereafter, I left the big enterprise that I had worked in for years to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often though about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it. Several years later, I heard Michael was involved in a serious accident, falling off 60 feet from a communications tower.

After l8 hours of surgery, and weeks of intensive care, Michael was released from the hospital with rods placed in his back. I saw Michael about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place.

"The first thing that went through my mind was the well being of my soon-to-born daughter," Michael replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, remembered I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die. I chose to live." "Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Michael continued, "... the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the operation room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, l read 'He's a dead man.' I knew I needed to take action." "What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me" said Michael. "She asked me if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I said. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled", 'Gravity'" Over their laughter, I told them, 'I'm choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead'."

Michael lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude.

I 1eamed from him that every day we have a choice to live fully. Attitude is everything.

迈克尔总是乐呵呵的，你总能听到他说些积极上进的话。他似乎生来就积极进取。他这样告诉他的员工：“每天早晨醒来，我对自己说，迈克尔，今天你有两种选择，选择心情愉快，选择心情恶劣，我选择心情愉快；有不愉快的事情发生，选择成为一个牺牲品，或是选择从中吸取教训，我选择吸取教训。”

迈克尔从60英尺的大楼上摔下，却活了下来，当有人问及他当时的想法，他是这样回答的：“我告诉我的手术医生，‘我选择活着，我愿意做任何手术。’”

选择接受生活的积极面也许是人生中最为明智的选择，其实，每个人都有机会充实、健康的活着，关键取决于你的人生态度

上海一直就不是个陌生的城市。梦里从今去过好几次。后来也出差去过。因为是南方人的缘故，又因为在北方呆了好多年的缘故，也没有觉得有什么特别之处。吃的东西就是平常的菜品，习惯也差不多，就是多了几个“侬“让你感觉自己是个外地人。

 

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囙 拼音:yīn 古同“因”。
囜 拼音:nín ◎ 贤。
囝 拼音:jiǎn　nān ◎ 方言，儿子。◎ 同“囡”。
囟 拼音:xìn ◎ 〔～门〕婴儿头顶骨未合缝的地方。亦称“囟脑门儿”、“顶门儿”。
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囡 拼音:nān　 ◎ 方言，小孩儿：小～。阿～。～～（对小孩儿的亲热称呼）。
団 拼音:tuán　◎ 同“团”（日本汉字）。BS ~~~小日本
囤 拼音:dùn　tún　◎ 用竹篾、荆条等编织成的或用席箔等围成的存放粮食等农产品的器物
囥 拼音:kàng　◎ 藏。
囦 拼音:yuān　◎ 古同“渊”。
囧 jiǒng ◎ 囧囧：明亮貌。江淹《孙廷尉绰杂述》诗：“囧囧秋月明”。
囨 拼音:piān　◎ 唾弃和斥责声，相当于“呸”。
囩 拼音:yùn　yún　◎ 回旋。◎ 古代土地面积单位，十二顷。
囱 拼音:chuāng ◎ 炉灶出烟的通路。 还有一个读法，不认识可以去死了。
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囮 拼音:é　yóu ◎ 用来诱捕同类鸟的鸟，称“囮子”。◎ 媒介。◎ 化，化生。
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囲 拼音:wéi　◎ 古同“围”。
図 拼音:tú　◎ 同“图”（日本汉字）。
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囶 囶 拼音:guó　◎ 古同“国”。
囷 拼音:qūn　◎ 古代一种圆形谷仓◎ 样子像囷仓的事物◎ 积聚；聚拢。
囸 拼音:rì◎ 古同“日”。
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囻 拼音:guó　◎ 古同“国”。
囼 拼音:tāi　◎ 古同“胎”。
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囿 拼音:yòu◎ 养动物的园子◎ 局限，被限制◎ 借指事物萃聚之处
圀 拼音:guó◎ 古同“国”。
圁 拼音:yín ◎ 〔～水〕古水名，上游即今中国内蒙古自治区的乌兰木伦河，下游即今中国陕西省的窟野河。
圂 拼音:hùn　hǔn　◎ 同“溷”。　溷 拼音:hún　hùn　hǔn　
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圅 拼音:hán　◎ 同“函”。
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圉 拼音:yǔ　◎ 养马的地方◎ 边陲◎ 同“圄”。◎ 古代乐器名。
圊 拼音:qīng◎ 厕所
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圌 拼音:chuán　chuí◎ 一种类似囤的盛粮器具。◎ 〔～山〕山名，在中国江苏省镇江市东。
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圎 拼音:yuán ◎ 古同“圆”。
圏 拼音:quān　◎ 同“圈”（日本汉字）。
圐 拼音:kū　◎ 〔～圙〕蒙古语“库伦”的旧译，指围起来的草场，多用于村镇名。
圑 拼音:fù　pǔ　◎ 古同“圃”。
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圆 不认识这个字的找BZ要板砖，使劲往自己脑袋上砸！
圔 拼音:è　yà　◎ 〔窳（yǔ ㄩˇ）～〕（音乐声）低回。
圕 拼音:tuān◎ “图书馆”三字的缩写。
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圗 拼音:tú　◎ 古同“图”。
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圙 拼音:lüè　◎ 〔圐～〕见“圐”。
圚 拼音:huì　◎ 门闠◎ 圈套
圛 拼音:yì　◎ （云气）连接不断。
圜 拼音:huán　yuán　◎ 围绕◎ 同“圆”。◎ 指天体
圝 拼音:luán◎ 古同“圞”。
圞 luán　◎ 〔团～〕ａ．形容圆，如“明月～～”；ｂ．团聚；团圆，如“可唤儿辈来，作～～之会。”
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